Four of Cups

Keywords- unaccepting, self-punishment, resentment, stubbornness

Appearance-

This card appears with a hand appearing out of now where(a divine gift or offering) in front of the person who is seated under a tree and isn't accepting this gift. Its right in front of him so he ofcourse knows that its there.
Also there are three cups lying already in front of him, and they too are lined away from him.

Meaning-

There are things coming upto you, there are people, gifts, love and affection flowing towards you but you are not ready to accept them. You might be resenting towards something that might have happened to you in past or you not having something that you really like. In this moment you are getting helping hand a gift from the divine and yet you are in a stage of unacceptance. You need to accept what is coming your way freely rather then complaining over things/people you dont have with you.
There is greenery around the person, green color is for the heart chakra which means there is immense healing love energy around you yet you are not ready to accept it. Any health conditions concerned for this spread would lead to prolongation of the ailment. Just because of you holding on to your stubbornness to not accept good things.
You at this stage might be wanting something totally out of the blue, the things you require are always with you. But when you want something apart from these then you are out of the nature's natural vibe and this will not help you. It would deteriorate your energies and vibes to quite a lower level and make your thinking small and narrow.
This also shows a person who has everything around him and yet not satisfied with what he has. He wants more or something different. Dissatisfaction, being uncontent are the two most messed paths where anyone can lay. These paths will never allow you to be happy with what you have. Whatever you possess or however high you reach you wouldnt enjoy your success or life if you cannot accept what you are being given.
Our life has everything every resource that we might need for our life's purpose, we will never be given anything more or less then that. If you are not happy with what universe is offering you then you need to change your thinking or either build your life's plans high.

Reversed-


This card reversed says that you are accepting things as they come, you seem to be in a very light mood and are joyful with each grain of sand surrounding you. You need to take only those things that you really require and put away or let-go things that you wont need.
There maybe certain things that you need to not accept. There maybe people who might be offering you with things you dont need or giving it off to you by force. You dont have to accpet these things, and be stern about it.
When things, people, work is thrusted upon you and not taken by your choice; you need to be careful as this might become a habit to the one who's offering it and when they get adapted to this habit it would be more difficult for you to say, NO.
Say NO, whenever you feel like saying, say no to whatever you dont feel like having and say no to people you dont like being with.
Additionally you need to remove your focus from all that is attracting and shining in front of you and focus on things that you feel are right to do at that moment.