Month: April 2015

Im not gonna talk all shit about exercise or eating healthy. All that is obvious and a must. So reading the “no nonsense about eating or exercising” should not give you any negative signals that eating right and exercising is an option or can be overlooked if you follow this guide. Beyond eating good and exercising, you need to know something more. If you don’t do that, all your exercises & eating healthy is in vain!

 

Now this is very important. And people who have done this have enjoyed not only good health but also overall satisfaction is every area of life. Obviously you will not enjoy just good health if you dont have money, and you wont enjoy money if you dont have good health. You wont enjoy relationships, property, travelling if you dont have good health. Not just physical good health or normal health reports on paper, but if you are not healthy overall then too it can make life seem to suck.

So let’s dive into it… To get healthy overall

Listening to your body- When you are into any situation or with people, your body sends out sensations to you, you feel different things, you get thoughts. If all these are good, with happy thoughts and soothing feelings know that the relationship with those people, your situation etc everything is good. And you are at the right place with right people. So there will be no harm to your health. Aka being in that place is a healthy choice for you.

But on the contrary if you don’t feel good at certain places, in company of certain people and standing in certain situations; where you constantly need to justify yourself, fear about ‘acting out your original feelings’, hesitate about sharing your thoughts and opinions on a topic that’s being discussed. Then know that you are not at the right place. I know this happens to most of us at most of the time, but this situation is like something that leaves you terribly uncomfortable and disoriented within. And you just feel like running away or breaking-free from that place. Then know for sure that its not good for your overall health.

On the contrary being slightly uncomfortable is okay. But if that happens a number of times a day, then try to fill the gap by offering yourself extremely comfy and appealing things/ people/ situations that will make you feel very good instantly. That way you will recover the energetic loss, that you gained during ‘little discomfort’.

Your mind body soul connection – 

You are not just your body, your mind and soul are connected to your body too. Your soul has come to this planet for some purpose and to grow. So if you are stuck into places which are being a hindrance in your purpose or your spiritual growth then your body will start giving up. Despite of being eating healthy and exercising.

** Psst What you need to do – 

You just need to take quick decision about that situation and act upon it. Staying stagnant and indecisive will just prove harmful & a waste of time for you. I mean if you don’t have to be with people you are and are at the wrong place in your life, nobody else suffers; its just you who suffers by wasting your precious time.

Why feelings are imp, and a must listen 

Feelings are connected to the heart. Your heart is meant to make you live. And the soul is connected to the heart. So whatever is going to be ‘not good’ or a ‘threat’ to your life or health; will always give out a nasty feeling in your body. Signalling quick action. And feelings are not to be avoided at all.

So what to do if you feel bad for your life partner? Your fat salary job or your million dollar new house? Well the definition is still the same. And feelings are not to be avoided in these cases too. Everything in life begins with YOU. A million dollar house would be of value only if you are happy in it, a life partner would do no good if you are not happy with her/him, a pile of money is not great if you are stressed, fatigued and drained out enough- that you dont have time to spend that money on your loved ones and yourself.

How diseases / ailments enter human energy body?

As you know now that you are not just your physical body. There are also higher bodies connected to you which form an entirety of your being. One level up from your physical body is your emotional body. And one level up from your emotional body is your mental body.

So when you have a thought, it gets converted into an emotion. It can be good or bad, and then that emotion gets converted into a physical impulse through your nervous system.

So if you have a negative thought, it gets converted into a negative emotion that will not feel good to you,and this emotion is further converted into physical body impulse telling your body that you are not enjoying in the current situation/ with people etc.

What to do, to assure you will always stay healthy?

So now, what to do to assure that you stay healthy….

– Listen to your feelings

Your feelings never go wrong. Listen to them, respect your body for giving out sensations and feelings that are nasty and horrible. Coz they tell you something’s wrong, before any astrologer or physhic can tell you.

Start figuring out whether you really want to be in a situation that might be really hurtful, be with people who repeatedly hurt and criticize you? Do you want to be in a cringe? Or set yourself free from the slavery?

– Weird choices? Make em, if your heart says so!

Now begin following your heart is my next piece of advice. You need to start following your heart. Aka start following your feelings. Do things that make you feel good, be with people who make you feel good, go to places where you feel elated etc. Doing this is easy, but it might make you ‘feel’ what if people call me crazy?

E.g.- you might feel like leaving a $50k job that sucks and go to a $20k job that celebrates and accepts who you are and your choices at a whole? Well doing this and taking this risk is totally upto you. Ways of the heart are weird at times, but they promise that you will never repent following your heart.

– Respect your body

Respect your body. You maybe fat, slim, average looking, glamorous bombshell, a simple person, a jovial person, talkative/ quiet, etc whatever it is ACCEPT yourself as you are. Accepting the body helps the body to get free and feeling free helps the free movement of prana energy within the body.

And feely flowing prana in your body assures that all the nutrition you take from your food and the stretching of your body during exercising session gets equally distributed within your system. As stretching and nutrition running only to a few parts of body isn’t healthy too.

– Check or Discard people who dont respect/ criticize your body. 

This might sound like a tough one. But I dont mean to say just discard… Discard… Discard. But learn that who around you are your real friends/ family that actually are loving you and wanting to stand by you in any situation in life. If there are people who just want to act like your well-wishers and pop-in everytime to drain you down of your energies and escape at times when you need their support and ‘being there next to you at testing times’ then you know what to do with them. Also check whether are you not running behind these critics just to prove that ‘you are a good person’ and are just craving for their justification? You need to believe in yourself and have confidence in yourself. If you keep running behind these nuts, you will never get out of that insecurity. Because, believe me- they want you to run after them; coz it makes them feel their ‘opinion’ matters and ‘its the only right thing’ that exists. And they will never make you feel good by accepting your opinion or decisions. 99% of times they will stamp a rejection on your actions.

And on the other side there are people you really love and who really care, but they might also be mesmerized by the negative disguised tv commercials and tv shows, that portray, that caring about people is ‘not to make them feel good all the time’, this is WRONG. Yes I know that, you dont have to flatter people, so that they dont keep building castles in air. But let your loved one’s decide for themselves how much to remain in dream world and when to snap back in reality. After all dreaming is also not bad, it helps us to grow better future and invent new things.

[ About eating healthy – Here’s a note about eating healthy. This post can’t underrate the fact that eating healthy food and exercising aren’t good. Eating healthy is a must and exercising is also a must.

But this post actually accepts the fact that eating healthy food that feels good to eat is actually healthy. So I don’t feel that things you don’t like to eat should be eaten only because they are good for health. As an overrated fact that bitter foods that are unappealing to the tongue yet are very healthy for the body. Even the eight fold yoga says that food that’s extreme in taste should be avoided. Extremely sweet, sour, spicy, bitter, salty tastes should be avoided.

And same thing goes for the exercising. Now I dont think that this is said by any health expert. I am not a health expert. Yet I feel that exercising should be in limitation not exaggerating neither too less. Exercising is for good of the body, dont let the body feel horrible doing it, and neither dont be too easy on your body that you dont flex enough muscles. Healthy people can exercise daily upto 45-60mins or 4-5 hours every week. Recovering people a bit lesser then this. Sick people, depends upon ‘feeling’ whether they want to exercise or not.

(I remember once I was sick and was finding it difficult to reduce my temperature, and then I got frustrated of being in the bed. And so I hopped out and began taking a walk, and after 2-3 hours my tempi returned to normal. And so just check what’s the feeling. You can never go wrong with feelings.)

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If you are from Nepal watch this, and share with people to watch it. If they dont know hindi, then you go explain to them.

Earthquakes are devastating, they not only scrape the physical layers of our earth but also shake the soul. But if you are alive even after seeing all that, know that GOD WANTS YOU TO LIVE. And because you are living, hearing cries of people, trying to think how you could be of help to others; then know that you still have a “purpose to live” and you can be of help to mankind.

Its not necessary that you have to give in bulk of foods, cash, help inorder to help. You can just help by being cool and calm despite of knowing about what just happened, praying for all souls who exist on physical plane as well as those who have transformed to spiritual beings, accepting the current reality(I know its hard and might sound blunt on my part to say it.) as whatever happened was past. Today is a new day and the world still exists. And nature has returned back to its equilibrium after the shocks. So you too are expected to do the same.

I know life will not be the same. Take care of yourself. Help others who need your help. Try to ask help from others where you alone cannot stretch a helping hand. And forgive yourself for not being able to bring help to other’s, who raised a helping hand towards you.

Your hard earned money, jobs, businesses, homes, shops etc of your business might have turned down and become ruins; but remember to achieve and to succeed is not to gain in monetary or in bulky resources form. But to achieve is to give from whatever you have.

I dont know what to say more, I can truly believe what you are going through now. I might not be able to imagine how deep your wounds are, because I have never been thorugh a 7.9 magnitude one. We had a milder quake in Gujarat in 2001. Still I feel this helps. Take Care. Pray for yourself, pray for others. God really helps.

 

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Re-kindle your love with your partner, with Tarot

The month of february just bring the thoughts of Love and Romance…. Falling hearts and music flowing in the air is the basic theme of this month. I would like to share this lovely spread with you. Though this is centered around people who are currently into a relationship yet it will be fun to practice it if you love doing different spreads.

You can also practice this spread if you are single and have someone in mind. Actually this spread can be used for just any relationship. To check how the relationship is going on and how to improve it for better.

1. Your Present relationship –

The first card will show you the current status of your relationship. What’s it. Well dont think too hard on this if there are no issues with it. Sometimes its good to bring back fire re-kindled into already good relationships. It just brings change, and change brings newness that helps to rekindle relationships.

2. What’s Lacking according to you –

This card will show lacks in your relationship. Now you have to really be open minded when you do a reading for yourself. As you need to find your own faults too, because it takes two hands to clap. So when in a relationship try to be open to everything that you are getting.

3. Whats Lacking according to your partner –

This card shows what’s lacking according to your partner. Here try to interpret the cards and then try to double check with your partner whether what you predicted was true or not.

4. What you expect – 

Your expectations from the relationship. Be careful here you dont get into possessiveness. Check and double check for cards that might point out that.

5. What does your partner expect –

Expectations of your partner. A wonderful way to know what your partner wants from you, its always good to know this. Helps to improve relationships as both the people work on what the partner expects from them. Also make sure your expectations are not too much, try to harmonize out sharp blows.

6. How to communicate lovingly your expectations and wants, to bring out the best in your relationship. –

After you work out what all the cards above mean then calculate out what exactly you have to communicate the thing to your partner. What you expect, what they expect and how they would like to get it fulfilled and how to bring the best feelings more into your relationship. Improvement of relationships should always be worked out equally by both. Remember if just one plans it out, its not a relationship.

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Why should you always think positive? What are the danger’s if you dont think positive always?

Majority of experts on mind and psychology define our mind as an energetic field that is soaked in our body as well as is around our body, whose center can be roughly the pit of our stomach. And that’s where the gut instinct comes from.

What happens when you think?

When we think you might have noticed that there are certain thoughts or certain type of thoughts that keep coming back into our mind again and again. There are a set number of different thoughts that we keep thinking on daily basis. And these thoughts have a deeper ‘space’ dug out for themselves into our mind. There is science called Neuro Linguistic Programming that teaches us more in depth about this.

The mind is connected to our brain and the left brain is associated to the right side or our body and right brain is associated to the left side of our body.

Then there are these neurons in our brain that carry impulses from brain to a part of our body and then the response to that action from part of our body to the brain. So whenever you think that you want to do something, then that impulse is sent to your hands the hands then do the work and the result is again sent to the brain as a response. (well its a lot more then this, but I have written this way to keep it simple)

There are a set amount of neurons that get linked to the repetitive thoughts that you think, and also store your response good/ bad to that thought. So when you think good or bad thoughts there are a group of neurons that gather together to form a team to help you feel what emotional charge is stored in them. These grouping is neurons collect a particular impulses that you keep doing repeteadly and thus help in carving your character or habits. What you are then depends on these NLP Partitions. That’s why we say its difficult for a poor man to get rich, its difficult for a sick man who’s been sick for a long time finds it difficult to get healthy completely, its difficult a weak student to become a topper at school etc. And so it takes a great difficult to step out of the box and do things differently that we havent done.

These group of neurons form partitions in your mind. And as you can see in the pic there are certain feelings that are stored more prominently in this mind. If  this is your mind, these emotions and thoughts associated with these emotions will be prominent for your mind. You get curious very easily, self-respect matters a lot to you, you also get sad sometimes, excitement also plays a vital role in your life, and also happiness and love are important and thoughts related to these emotions keep popping into your life.

So now already when these major partitions are formed, you make least amount of effort to get happy, feel love, work for self-respect etc. And the emotions like hatred, jealousy, guilt don’t have a partition. Which means you will find it difficult to think and feel about that. As its not in your ‘memory’.

And on the other side you might have major thoughts and feelings that are negative. Not to make fun of it. But that’s the way life has rolled in front of you till now. Also a fact that the negative thoughts and associations that you might have made is what you have perceived has happened to you. What you feel hurt about and feel bad about, is what is taught to you since childhood. So if your parents don’t teach you as a child to get sad when somebody takes something away from you; then you wouldn’t have felt bad about this situation.

How are good and bad thoughts grouped?

The good and bad thoughts are grouped based on what charge is associated with them. Also their ‘digital signature’, LOL not actually. Your cells of your body also have a digital signature that has good and bad charge and that’s how the cells get grouped. And the similar thoughts and feelings further group into a team forming little teams inside your mind.

What happens if you think negative most of the time?

When you think negative most of the time then you might form different thoughts and emotional groupings in your NLP partitions that are mostly negative. Now sadness, hurt, anger, hatred all are different and feel different. But after all they all are the same they make you feel ‘not good’.

What are the DANGER’s of Negative Thinking?

Now as we know there is good and bad charge. Similarly there is good and bad energies out there in the spiritual world too. Good is connected to divine energies and bad group is connected to devilish or destructive energy. Good spiritual energies are the Angels, divinities, ascended masters, etc. Whereas the bad spiritual energies are the troubled spirits, vampires, psychic suckers etc.

The more the area of the good/ bad charge, the more you are open to that sort of situation is your life. And so if your mind has majority of good charged thoughts you will be more open to the positive spiritual world. Where you will get more of good health, healing, happiness, miracles, good luck, etc.

And if the majority of charge of your mind is negative, then you get more open to the negative spiritual world. And this negative world consists of negative spirit energies who will make you feel sick, diseased, depressed, have psychological issues, bad-luck, misfortune turning back again and again at you.

Positive Thoughts as a majority in your mind 

The bigger the area of good or bad charge, the easier it is to get thoughts, feelings and experiences of that sort in your life.

If you have majority of good thoughts and emotions occupying a larger area of your mind then you will get thoughts/ emotions automatically based on that charge. So if your charge is positive, your positive thinking will be on auto-pilot. And you will continuously get positive thoughts all the time. So good thoughts about yourself and people around you will be easy, understanding wisely negative situations- will come automatically to you,

And similarly if you have negative charge in majority then you will have negative thinking on auto-pilot and you wont have to make an effort to think negative. Thoughts of negativity, fears, hatred, revenge, psychological problems, suicidal thoughts would be effortlessly coming into your mind.

Negative thoughts as a majority in your mind.

 How to overcome this?

The positive thinking model looks good, but negative thinking thingie might freak you out. And there maybe a shout inside you that yells for solution of it. There’s a solution for everything after all.

We all were born with just positive thoughts and positive charge, (unless some people who are born with negative issues due to past life karmas) and our upbringing, surroundings and teachings that our elders and schools gave made us aware that there is something ‘bad’ too. Otherwise a child doesn’t know the difference between good and bad. Child runs at the view of chocolates too and also runs happily to catch fire. There’s no distinction of good or bad for a child.

When something bad happened to you, do you remember you were reminded continuously that its bad, you’re bad, you’ve done bad? So what happened the commands were repetitive and so that way that experience was made to appear big to leave an impact on your mind. So that you don’t forget it and remember it forever. So in the same way you too can work in repetition, inorder to remove that negative thought by thinking opposite of it and repeating in your mind again and again.

This positive sentence repetition is called affirming. This is not something new, its going on for centuries. How?! Chanting and mantra repetition that has been an age old tradition of all religions.

Repeating positive sentences to yourself again and again is very effective to begin thinking positive. These affirmations become more powerful if they are done at bedtime and as soon as you wake up.

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The month of February begins with a mushy feeling of red rose petals falling down your path, winds carrying the notes of lovely romantic songs and a sense of affection and warmth in the heart of doing that special thing for the special one that has made your life special by coming into it and giving you the Unconditional Love that you have always longed for.

So with this ‘love’ly month I too decided to share with you some of the Cards from the Tarot that are cards for Love & Relationship. Tarot holds few cards in it that are specially meant to show Love, relationship beginnings, marriage like celebrations, contented family life etc. Let get directly to these cards….

Ofcourse it depends on the position where these cards have fallen, to actually figure what they mean in the spread. So try to decode them carefully when you attempt to do a reading with them.

The all singing and dancing card for celebrating Love is the Lovers card. This is the card showing a truly heart centered relationship that is happening at your end. Probably the ideal relationship for long term commitment, marriage and family oriented.

This is the card that suggests that you are ready for love, new enthusiasm and desire arises within you when this card appears in the spread. There are times when people are totally not ready for accepting love in their lives, but when this card appears in the spread the person who might have been gone through trauma, is healed and is again ready to get back to love and ready to search love and fall in love again.

You might find quite a bit of cups cards here… This is again the second one. This card says that two people who might find love in each other are getting closer, by friendship, partnerships at work etc. But this is happening in any area of life. And these two people are potentially good pair as lovers. They will be able to get into a healthy and romantic relationship if they intend to do so.

VI) 4 of Wands – 

And yet again a cup card, the three of cups card shows that three people are rejoicing with cups. This is a card that shows that two people have already gotten into relationship and now that relationship is seeing a phase of celebration. The celebrations that are based on relationships of two people can be many like engagement, marriage, baby shower or celebrations amongst people that are closely related to the two people in love.

The ten of cups card is a winner in this category. The ultimate joy of a fruitful family life. Fully blown affectionate and loving family life is depicted by this card. Tens are for completion of a phase and this card shows the final expected result of any relationship.

This is the card that ultimately shows the marriage set up. But it can be for a variety of celebrations. It can be either engagement or marriage or maybe even babyshower. The celebration of the birth of new soul. The difference between this card and the 3 of cups is that, this card shows more of the happiness of the two people whose celebration is taking place.

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I would like to know how you define these cards, there is no right or wrong. Just go ahead post a comment on my blog.

See in net week’s post…. How to re-kindle Love in your Relationships! And you bet me… Its hard to miss. So stay tuned to net week’s post.

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